Our expert says:
Some people like to talk about whatever is troubling them, others prefer to keep quiet and think about it on their own. Why not respect her wish to keep quiet ? You seem to see these episodes of silence as risking your entire marriage ; she does no seem to see them in the same light, at all. Are there other reasons why you feel the marriage is at risk ? Or is it mainly that you feel excluded and shut out in such eipsodes, and feel that something sinister could be happening, which you cannot deal with, not knowing what it is ?
This sounds like a recent problem ( you've been married only 3 months ) - it may well fade or whse may become more open to the idea of some couples counselling sessions. Maybe try alking more pleasantly with her BETWEEN these eipsodes, so she can be reminded that it is safe and pleasant to chat with her husband
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