Our expert says:
communication is an integral part of a healthy relationship. it would be difficult to make things normal without finding out what made it "abnormal'. it sounds as if your wife may be experiencing desire problems which can be due to a variety of reasons, medical, pschological or both and she is too afraid to discuss it as she may not understand it herself (especially in view of your'ls previous sex life). i would recommend seeing either a psychologist or sexologist to help identify the source of her lack of desire.there's alot that you might need to change but rather do that with the assistance of a counsellor so that the change is an effective one and benefits both of you.
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