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Posted by: Johan | 2009/10/28

Wife having sex

I would like to see my wife having sex with another man, is that normal?

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There are several sexual practices that are actively explored – such as swinging, poly-amory, three-some’s etc. It is however important to identify for yourself if this is just a fantasy or if this is something you would want to be acted out. Then you need to find out what your wife feels about this. It is important to realize that moving towards engaging a third party in your current relationship will have an impact on your relationship and one should be prepared. Seeking the professional assistance of a psychologist in this regard would be recommended.


You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.

Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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Posted by: rahim khan | 2009/10/29

Yup, I like that.

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Posted by: Samantha | 2009/10/28

In all seriousness, I personally think it' s crazy - however this is not about me or the other readers....
Why not try using a mirror during sex so that you can see yourself shagging your wife.
Be very careful of this fanatasy and how (if acted upon) it would eventually affect your relationship.

Imagine your wife having the most incredible orgasms with this man and looking as if she' s begging for more.... will you feel adequate to please your wife? Will you be wondering if she prefers him?

Be careful of fanatasies.... sometimes they are better left as fantasies!

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Posted by: Egg | 2009/10/28

Mark, NO - again.

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Posted by: Tango | 2009/10/28

You must be insane

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Posted by: mark | 2009/10/28

simple,u are not alone.there are thousands of people just like u guys.if this wat turns u guys on go for it.these guys that are giving u stick,if they hade the chance to sleep with someones wife they will jump to that.

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Posted by: woman | 2009/10/28

Well, that depends on whether your wife knows about/ likes the fantasy. If she' s not up for it, then you' d best let go of it. If she' s willing - maybe you guys could try swinging?

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Posted by: Dee | 2009/10/28

Abnormal!

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Posted by: Mogabe | 2009/10/28

You are sick to want to see that. Go see a Dr, thats what you need to see.

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Posted by: Egg | 2009/10/28

No

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Posted by: sexologist | 2009/10/28

There are several sexual practices that are actively explored – such as swinging, poly-amory, three-some’s etc. It is however important to identify for yourself if this is just a fantasy or if this is something you would want to be acted out. Then you need to find out what your wife feels about this. It is important to realize that moving towards engaging a third party in your current relationship will have an impact on your relationship and one should be prepared. Seeking the professional assistance of a psychologist in this regard would be recommended.


You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.

Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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