Our expert says:
Sad, maybe, and she misled you about this particular thing --- maybe because she knew it would greatly worry you ? In every other way she is the person you thought she was. and despite having oher experiences, i was you she chose to marry and spend her life with.
And sadly this isn't uncommon where there is a break-up, temporarily in a relaionship. According to what you say of her story, she was forced or coerced into these two episodes of sex, rather than choosing to deliberately be with the other guy, and probably felt really ashamed of what happened. He took advantage of her when you were not, a that time, in a commited relationship with her. Forgive her, and yourself, and consider couples counselling if this continues to trouble you.
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