Our expert says:
before jumping to conclusions about affairs; it may be a better option to communicate your desire for more sex. in a relationship it is very important to communicate your desires / wants with your partner and devise the best approach / outcomes.
however, the problem may be a difference / discrepancy in desire, ie; wife has no desire for sex or a lower desire than yourself.
the best approach is to consult a sexologist / counsellor to discuss these issues and learn techniques for negotiation. however, owing to the fact that your wife is not willing, it may be better to first lay your cards on the table. mention to her that you desire more sex, even if she has backache / headache, there are less intensive sexual acts, ie: she can masturbate you, provide oral sex etc. in turn, she can ask you to massage her back / head. if this is not successful, the next best option would be to consult a professional
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