Our expert says:
Of course he doesn't see anything wrong with what he does --- he can't bear to face the facts about his own behaviour. Rather like someone with an antisocial personality, who sees even his own worst behaviours as ALWAYS someone else's fault. And getting reprinted copies of what I or anyone else on the forum says, is not going to get him to see the light --- it'll only annoy him.
The puzzle, for anyone reading your mesages, is why you have chosen to stay with him for so long. If you experience him in the way you describe, and he makes you feel as bad as you say --- why would you choose to have such a person as your fiancee ?
Let's hope 2009 is indeed going to be a good year for you, and for all our readers. I could really do with a good one, too !
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