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Posted by: anon | 2012/08/13

Why when meeting a new male friend

I become sort of lustfull for him, needing or wanting to talk to him often etc, fanticize being with him?

Its happened before many times to.

Also when i have had a few drinks, i even get so close to even kissing the man, even though i am in a committed relationship.

What is wrong with me?

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Lets see what other readers have to say, here. What are your own answers to these questions ?
It isn't compulsory to fall in lust with every many you meet. Fantasizing is voluntary, and if you find you misbehave or are tempted to do spo when you "have a few drinks", then you can choose to drink less.
If you are in a committed relationship, and sincerely consider yourself comitted, you need to avoid putting yourself in the way of temptation.
Are you so desperately lonely that you need to talk, often, to all the men you meet ? Don't you talk enough in your relationshop ? Maybe, also, you're under-occupied, leaving more time to indulge in fantasy and temptations - can't you keep yourself busy with more worthwhile activities ?

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Posted by: Pinky | 2012/08/14

This sounds like the behaviour of a very loose, desperate, attention-seeking, drama queening member of the female species. (Cant even call her a women!)

You will find yourself in sh!t street sooner or later if you continue behaving in this manner. Look after yourself, nobody is going to do that for you!

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2012/08/13

Lets see what other readers have to say, here. What are your own answers to these questions ?
It isn't compulsory to fall in lust with every many you meet. Fantasizing is voluntary, and if you find you misbehave or are tempted to do spo when you "have a few drinks", then you can choose to drink less.
If you are in a committed relationship, and sincerely consider yourself comitted, you need to avoid putting yourself in the way of temptation.
Are you so desperately lonely that you need to talk, often, to all the men you meet ? Don't you talk enough in your relationshop ? Maybe, also, you're under-occupied, leaving more time to indulge in fantasy and temptations - can't you keep yourself busy with more worthwhile activities ?

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