Our expert says:
Is he impatient with everyone, including himself ? Or only with you ? Impatience is one thing --- but it doesn't leave marks. That IS abuse. YOu say you love him --- even with the abuse ? Or have you unwisely convinced yourself that in some magical way this will stop ? It won't. It's quite likely to get worse. Abuse is not a way of showing love. And if you think it is somehow a husband's "right" to abuse and hurt his wife, then you should not get married to anyone until you have gained, probably with the help of a counsellor, enough self-esteem and self-confidence to protect yourself and to know that NOBODY, EVER, has the right to abuse you or hurt you.
He is using you, and only content when he gets exactly what he wants. That has nothing to do with love.
And at the advanced age of 26, he will absolutely NOT "grow out of " this.
Discuss this with POWA or some similar agency helping abused women, and plan a safe way out of this relationship. Do NOT marry an abuser. Escape
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