Our expert says:
MEN don't do that. Some people, including SOME men, may do that. Its not entirely clear, from your description, what these relationships are that you are mentioning - what YOU are expecting from them, and what the guys are expecting. Especially where you are describing relating to men with an exiasting girlfriend or wife.
Sometimes, for instance, they may feel a relationship with a "tomboy" woman may be more innocent ( or expect it to be seen as such by other more girly girlfriends ) and perhaps with less expectation of sexual content. They may hope for a form of friendship, like a pal, without the specific boy-girl components.
Also, as this seems to have been a recurrent issue for you, what results have you had when you calmly asked these men about what was happening in your relationship with them ?
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