Our expert says:
I strongly suspect that in these situations ( which we get asked about distressingly often ) the person is actually very unwilling to :forget" about their feelings and move on, and this reluctance is what stops it from happening. That and not keping busy and getting involved with other people and other activities. See a counsellor, especially of the CBT variety, to learn to give up this bad habit.
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