Our expert says:
Sometimes it's because the Really Big Stuff hasn't happened yet, but we're ready for war. Sometimes because where either or both have unnecessarily rigid views on small things, and don't wish to learn, grow or negotiate, small things ARE big things to them.
THe nightmares could probably be wll dealt with, with the aid of a shrink.
And qwert's suggestion might work - qwerty, shouldn't we be sending you off to sort things out in the Middle East ?
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