Our expert says:
This is something I have never heard of professionally, and never come across in any literature...I had to do some thinking and digging...
I don't think that this is true of all men (clearly, otherwise all women would be virgins!), but it may be for some of those you have met...It may also not be about your virgin status, but about something else you are 'putting out there', check this out with friends to get some feedback.
Possible reasons for a fear of being with a virgin might include:
1. Pressure to make the night meaningful as most people remember their 'first time'. This can also mean more of a commitment than those individuals are willing to make (in which case, thank your stars that you managed to escape them!)
2. Fear of hurting you - I read that someone felt really uncomfortable seeing the look on the face of his virgin girlfriend the first time they had sex and he wouldn't want to repeat this. Just so that you know - not all 'first times' are awful/very painful - it can feel a little strange, but may not be traumatic from a pain perspective!
3. They may imagine all sorts of things about you that are / are not true (e.g. restrictive, conservative, not fun, 'heavy', wanting commitment).
If you value your virginity, then don't worry about this, the kind of guy who will stick around is likely to match your value system.
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