Posted by: mike | 2009-01-15


my girl and i have been together for 8 months now.
the first 4 months was magic,we would have sex 2-3 times a day,then it just stopped for a month and now she only wants it in the anus.i do not mind but is there a reason for this as she does not want vaginal sex any more!

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It is difficult to say – The easiest would be to explore with her what it is that she does not enjoy about vaginal penetration. It might also be that she is worried about falling pregnant. A lot of women do not reach orgasm with penetration and need clitoral stimulation more – As mentioned exploring your concerns with her is recommended to ensure mutual sexual enjoyment.

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Posted by: j | 2009-01-15

maybe there is something else that she does not whant you to know about, i mean why all of a sudden anal. she has to keep your feelings in to consideration aswell.

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Posted by: mike | 2009-01-15

she is on the pill so i don' t know what it is.when i try normal sex she gets up and go away.she says she only gets an orgasm from anal.

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Posted by: Anon617 | 2009-01-15

Hi Mike,

Did u guys maybe have a scare. Maybe she is scared to fall pregnant??

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