Our expert says:
Someone boobed and opened this forum much earlier than they had agreed, so it's only by accident that I have discovered your message and been able to answer it during my "holiday" !
Isn't the real basis of this problem that apparently the two of you are living apart ? Is there no possibiolity that you could move to Joburg and be with him there, or that he could move back to you ? He may be feeling lonely and frustrated, and may feel that a cyber-relationship is less unfaithful than actually having a physical affair. Marriage counselling would also be a good idea, if you can be in the same place long enough to make this practical
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