Our expert says:
After having read your posting I am definitely sure that there is no recipe response I can give you that you could just go do and it then resulting in what you express you desire for yourself and your sexual relationhip with your husband.
The issues and factors that underly the situation having developed to where it is at this moment in time may be complex. It seems that working on communication with regards your sexual needs, your sexual repertoire and negotiating about these within the context of the history of your relationship is what may need to happen. This would best be served by means of couples sex therapy where a therapist can assit you both in navigating the discussion about what you both need, what you are both willing and not to explore sexually and the reasons that lie behind them.
At times the experience of the sexual relationship can also echo what is happening in other areas of the relationship.
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