Our expert says:
It varies widely. Some people don't ever seem to think about it at all, some obsess about it maybe excessively and this in itself prevents tghem from clarifying such issues. Copying others isn't a great idea, though it can be a source of different ways to try to see if they can fit you well, like rummaging through old clothes at a jumble sale.
Overall, I suspect you'd benefit most from seeing a personal counsellor, to help you most fruitfully explore these issues, and find your own answers and patterns, rather than just accepting second-hand ones from others.
Be the very best you, rather than trying to be a second-rate someone else.
And as Maria wisely points out, NOBODY else is as well-organized and together as they try to appear, and as you probably see them.
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