Our expert says:
Are you looking for a mate or a friend ? Sometimes its good not to focus too much on bed-mates / husbands, and have some friends as well. This lets you get to know people, and you don't need to reject them just because they don't excite you sexually ( you probably have a number of female friends, and don't expect them to turn you on sexually ).
I wonder why you ever felt you had to "go for the good-looking guys" ? it sounds as though you might have fairly low self-esteem, and are afraid to be seen with a guy who OTHER women won't admire. You're right that very attractive people are often shallow and unsatisfactory partners because they have never needed to be anything except good-looking.
There is certainly shallowness in what you say. He is "everything you want in a man" -except for love and sex - but he has attractive job and car. Do you want to marry the guy or the car ?
Maybe you need to think more deeply about what you actually want from a long-term relartionship. Someone who is a fashion accessory and gets you admired by others ? Or a loving, kind, good person worth spending time with ?
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