Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
This is a really good question. Thank you for asking and for the challenge answering it.
People get together for many different reasons and people do grow and change constantly. When this happens in a relationship and people are growing apart, it is not a sign that something is wrong or that one of the party is doing something wrong, it usually is an indication that the 2 people involved, although brought together at one point are now finding that their personal growth is taking on separate path.
The importance is to recognise this when it is happening and acknowledge it and not blame anyone for it. When 2 people who are growing apart but so keep respect for one another, they are able to part on good terms, preserve the memories they created together and look forward to their future separately, but this requires emotional maturity.
Tell your wife what you have just posted. It is very well expressed and allow her to identify this as well. As to know what you should do, follow your heart.
Staying together for the wrong reasons will not contribute to either of you but if talking together refreshes why you got married, you will also know if it is worth staying together.
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