Posted by: The Fat Lady | 2013-02-18

When its over.......

....there comes a time that no matter how hard you have tried and loved and cared... you have to accept that if he treats you like this he just cannot love you. much emotional abuse must you take before you realize that he is just not that into you...promise after promise is broken....

.........that he would rather lie and say he is at work and when you then say " ok i''ll call you on the work number"  to admit no he is an a bar ...that''s why he is not at home after work many times has he lied? I caught him now but how many other times did he lie? mother always taught me once you lose respect for a man the relationship is over....

....I have now caught him lying to me...I have lost respect....I have to pick myself up and move out and on with my life...its going to be hard...

....after 8 years he is doing this? I have to go and spy and see who he is with? check his phone? call and see if its a man that answers? maybe he has put a lady''s name under a mans? This is what i have become? this is NOT who i am...

....but what would you expect of a man who covers for his sister when she goes out with her lover when she is married.....

The Fat Lady has Sung - its over.

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And yes, don't listen believingly to what he says in words - listen carefully to his deeds.

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Posted by: Me | 2013-02-18

I don''t believe in the word " sorry"  as it''s too loosely thrown around. For me, it''s actions that show how sorry people really are............ If his actions don''t change, then he''s not really sorry, and that''s why the behaviour does not change.

Good luck in the decisions you make.

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Posted by: The Fat Lady | 2013-02-18

Its like the baby african grey i just bought....i dont want to break his trust in i make sure he feels safe I protect him and im gentle etc...yes you are right.

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Posted by: Chris758 | 2013-02-18

If you get in a situation where you cannot trust your partner it is actually over. There is an add on the TV where the man faces an elephant and then at the end the words is earned....... that is so true and usally the person that broke that trust thinks it will be ok just to say I am sorry!!!!

Best of luck for the future but I agree with you.......

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