Our expert says:
You DO matter, very much so. Just not to the selfish and exploiting little man you are with. It does sound as though he doesn't love you, but through no fault of yours - I wonder if he genuinely loves anyone other than himself.
What you describe is, of course, highly disrespectful of you - but actually, even if they like it, disrespectful of the actual needs of the kids. Not providing proper discipline and organization in the lives of the kids and their carers is abusive, to my mind. And what you describe is certainly neglectful and not of benefit to the kids.
Why do you choose to stay with someone who treates you so badly ? He treats you as an unpaid servant, and so long as you accept that, the situation will not change
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