Our expert says:
Why wait for some specific time ? If the other person is amenable, trying proper marriage counselling might be a good move before calling in the lawyer, both to see whether the problems aere repairable, and to enable you to feel sure you have made the right decision to divorce and to be better able to avoid the same problems in any future relationship. But if that has failed, or if your huband won; sincerely take part in that, enough is already enough --- see the lawyer. It sounds as though you have already decided that this is the time, but want re-assurance that it is OK to move to that next step. If so, see the lawyer. If there is a risk of abuse or risk when he reacts, also onsult POWA or some similar group
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