Our expert says:
Dont accept blame for his pathological degree of jealousy and suspicion that is based on his insecurity, and not on your behaviour. And if he has hit and threatened you, this is abusive. Call POWA or some similar organization designed to advise and help abuised women, and examine your options so as to keep yourself safe. UNless he will agree to seek help for his anxiety and very low self-esteem from a capable psychiatrist ( the ast one sounds to have been useless and remarkably uninterested in being helpful ) , you may need to plan a safe way of leaving and maintaining yourself
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