Our expert says:
Long, long indeed...
Expect her to be cold and rude. Then her normal behaviour won't surprise or trouble you, and if she is ever even accidentaslly pleasant, that'll be a treat. There was no reason at all why you should have cleaned up the kitchen the others messed up --- you're not a servant. You have seen and recognized how she works, and that her mood, whether nice or nasty is actally not about you or caused by you. So refuse to take it seriously. If the others choose to fight, let them, but ignore them --- dont let it upset you any more than you let yourself be upset by the noise of thundr.
And you don't need to bad-mouth the others in order to calmly chat with your bf about how difficult things can be. Surely they're not all sweetness the entire time he's home ? He must have heard them fighting, and must know wyhat his sister is like. Treat their squabbling like the dog next door barking -- not something you have to allow yourself to get upset about
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