Our expert says:
What I do to you ? Little me ? madam, we have not even met.
I'm guessing ( I do hope I'm right ) that this is a copy of a message you sent to someone who has been very hurtful to you ?
From the sound of it, part of your problem may be that youi have trapped yourself within a bunch of expectations and suppositions - that he SHOULD do this or that, and therefore MUST do this or that. It's what we in the trade call MUSTerbating.
Check the constitution nowhere does it sy he MUSt do these things. You WANT him to do so, you hope he will, you expect him to but it's up to him whether he does or does not. YOu make yourself vulnerable by creating such unrealistic expectations, and by doing it this way, you give away so much of your power to someone else, who gains the power to make you feel awful, so easily.
Whatever all this is about, you WANT those answers, but the glorious secret is that you don't NEED them ! You're not stupid, or pathetic or weak unles uyou insist on giving someone else the power to make you thus.
See a counsellor of the CBT form, to regain your self-respect and confidence, and realize your real potential
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