Our expert says:
This pattern, of someone ( usually a man ) with a child from a previous relationship, marrying and then funding his children from the previous liaison and neglecting his wife, seems sadly common. YOu should at least try to discuss this with him, and maybe if there are family elders interested in the success of your marriage, discuss it with them as well. Sometimes a father spoils the child out of a sense of guilt for having parted with the child's mother.
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