Our expert says:
Ironically the fact that your wife becomes as lubricated as she does is an indication of how sexually aroused she is with you, that she is comfortable and relaxed with you and that she is highly stimulated with you and by you and how you have sex with her.
It is true that as we age things do gradually change, our erections are not necessarily as firm as it was when we were younger, after child birth women can lose some tone in her vaginal barrel.
The trick is for the couple to adapt together as their bodies go through subtle changes. You could experiment with sex in different positions and discover penetrating your wife in certain positions and at certain angles results in more or higher levels of physical sensation of your penis..
If you are concerned with the firmness of your erections and concerned that you may be developing erectile dysfunction please see your Dr for an assessment. If this is so he could assist you, if appropriate, with some medication.
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