Our expert says:
If you have any interest in continuing with this relationship ( though, obviously, on a much better basis than at present !) then suggest you start meeting at a couples counsellor to sort out what on earth is going omn at present, which is clearly not pleasant for either of you.
I don't see why the family ought to be involved at this stage. If the two of you cannot resolve whatever these difficulties are, you won't get back together whatver the family thinks or wants ; if you can sort things out, then you can sort out the family issues later.
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