Our expert says:
Maybe I'm misunderstanding here. You have been married for 20 years, AND have just met ANOTHER guy ? His comments to you, as quoted, do sound curious, but that could be just how he feels.
He lies to you and seems to be seeing and/or flirting with other women. It's not expecting too much to expect him not to behave like this.
But its your reference to a long marriage that puzzles me. If you are cheating on your husband, this man you're cheating with may reasonably not expect you to care so much if he also cheats, on you.
Or is it your husband o 20 years who is behaving in this way - after 20 years ?
Then he tells you he is lying to these other women, but telling you the truth ? And he is so irresistable that these other women are chasing after him ? He wants to control you and to stop you from seeing other men, but expects you not to mind who he sees ?
Then you say you love him so much ? Nothing you have said about him sounds like a man worth loving - what actually is it that you love about him ?
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