Our expert says:
He sounds really bad news, frankly. He's married only 8 months and already wants to give up on his wife, without seriously trying mariage counselling to sort out whatever problems he thinks they have ? Your mom didn't know he was maried and separated - apparently her friend, the guy's mother, didn't think to tell her these details ? And he cheerfully accepted the arrangement to see you, knowing he was married, and he didn't tell you this from the start ?
IF this is how her works and lives, what on earth makes you imagine you could be lastingly happy with him ? How can you be sure he wouldn't give up on you, too, after 8 months or less ?
You have some problems of conscience about this, but apparently not enough to have prevented yopu from being intimate with him already ?
He becomes "emotional and needy" when he doesn't get just what he wants ? Yes, I can imagine that.
And so soon after meeting you, he is already moving in and planning a future with you > Isn't that a bit impulsive ?
This sounds like a Really Bad Idea all round ; you still emotionally raw on the rebound, and him without any convincing evidence of emotional consistency or maturity and theoretically also on some sort of rebound ? How keenly do you want worse problems than in your ( and his ) previous relationships ?
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