Our expert says:
Depression is a common problem, anyway, and the more so after the unpleasant experiences you have had. You deserve a proper assessment of your possible depression, preferably from a proper specialist psychiatrist, and advice on treatment, which may include medication and CBT style counselling.
As for your husband, some men don't react so much to a miscarriage, as its a less personal thing for them ; and many men just don't have much skill at showing their emotions and were brought up to not reveal them.
It is NOT a nomal feature of white culture to compel a wife to join her husband's church - it may be more an aspect of Mormon culture.
See to yourself first, and get proper expert attention to your depression ; then try to convince him to join you in marriage counselling to work on all the problematic issues between you
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