Our expert says:
Hmm. One of the many problems aroused by spoiling a child, is that almost inevitably it wont be practical to keep up the level of spoiling to which the child becomes accustomed, and most reasonable kids will then conclude either that a Great Wrong is being done to them, or that something Awful about them has been discovered, and it must be their fault that they are now less treasured.
So it is indeed possible that her change in behaviour and bed wetting could be a result of her changed status. Or it is possible that somnething else has been happening - perhaps the boys are not treating her well, in the privacy of their bedroom ?
It would be wise to discuss this tactfully with your ex, not as an issue of blame, but to report the changes you have noticed, and to ask his opinion about what relevant factors their could be, and how best jointly to manage it.
But taking her to see a child shrink for a full assessment would be the wisest policy, to look at all possibilities, and to find the bet course o action.
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