Our expert says:
This must be very difficult for you. Unfortunately the things your husband expect may be too much if it is against your values. You have accomodated him up to now -most women will not be so considerate. It worries me that this was also a pattern in his first marriage and most likely a contributing factor to its failure as we know that the things he wants now, often lead to relational breakdowns. An intimate relationship is give and take and you are allowed to set boundaries. To say no is as much rejection as to ask too much. I would suggest that you consult a professional. Phone the SASHA helpline for the contact details of a professional – 0860 100 262.’
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