Our expert says:
Some women experience a husband's interest in porn as equivalent to cheating, others understand that it may occur, for instance, INSTEAD of cheating, if the wife is for whatever reason, however good, withholding sex. I wonder whether your wife may have had or still have, a degree of Post Partum Depression, after the birth ? Or maybe related to the birth, new discomfort when attenmpting sex.
Surely, though, your wife will be upset by this hussy at work who seems to be stalking or pursuing you, and making all the calls.
And, small though the point be, she should perhaps have appreciated that this was not something you chose to hide from her.
See a marriage counsellor together and work out the many issues ( there will be more than those you mention ) between you. And tell the woman at work that unless she stops pestering you immediately, you will obtain a court order forbidding her to contact you in any way - and that could possibly include approaching you ar work, which could risk her job.
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