Our expert says:
I have already responded to your message the other time it was posted here, so please read that response too.
As regards the extra information you supply here - its very unusual for a child to be so upset about being with girls or women, and I would very much wonder whether some older girls at school, or women, have abused him sexually. Its not unusual for someone who has experienced abuse, to become involved in doing it.
The fact that he changes the subject when you ask about this, is suspicious. One method which child shrinks might use ( it might be possible with you ) is to play with a such child with multiple small dolls representing adult and children men and women, and to encourage him to play games about what these people are doing together, and how they feel about whatever is happening in the game. Similarly, one can ask him to draw pictures of things that happen at school, scary things, ror other descriptions that might let him draw on his experiences ( literally !) and then ask him gently to explain what is happening to the people in the pictures.
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