Our expert says:
What you describe is a common problem. What is important is that you have described that during the day you do have an appetite and desire for sexual intimacy with your husband. What can happen however is that by the time you get into bed you are feeling so exhausted so that all of those feelings are forgotten. You have said that when you have a day off or it is your anniversary or you are going away then all is fine. This is a great sign. Perhaps you need to be more focussed on not getting to bed too late. Sometimes last thing at night is not the best time to try to be intimate when you are so tired. How about first thing in the morning? It is important to know that sexual response for women can be decreased by a number of things. For example, if we have concernes or anxieties, body image issues, lack of privacy, lack of trust etc but can also be stimulated by many things, and especially effective touch. Perhaps spend more time on intimacy, setting the scene before you fall into bed and focus on the good feelings that are shared rather than performance.
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