Posted by: seeking | 2008-11-05

what is wrong with me

im dating a wonderful guy..... but i just cant seem to stop causing trouble between us. when things are going well i just think of something to say hat will lead to us having an argument....... HELP

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Think about what your arguments stop, or prevent from happening. Is it, as Anonym suggests to avoid a situation that might lead him to expect sex ? If so, then rather calmly discuss it and explain that this is not what you want. Do you, perhaps, have low self-esteem, and you don['t believe you really deserve someone as good as him, so you're sabotaging yourself ?

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Posted by: seeking | 2008-11-06

anonym it has nothing to do with sex like i said he is such a wonderful guy he told me he' ll wait untill im ready for sex before we can do it. i just have a this feeling of pushing him away coz i dont feel worthy of him but i dont wana loose him,,,,,,,, wat must i do? i know my problem and i want to start doing right by him

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Posted by: Anonym | 2008-11-05

Just tell him you don' t want sex if this is why you are fighting with him.

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