Our expert says:
If you keep starting off with guys who are not yet mature enough to want to work towards a more permanent relationship, they will move on, and there is nothing wrong with you that leads to that conclusion - that's where they're heading when you arrive.
Try to separate the dislike of feeling alone from the wish for setling into a permanent relationship. Try makin actual friends - men and women whose comapny you enjoy, with no longer-term goal ; try meeting people through doing things, such as in charitable / NGO work rather than the club type scene, so you get to know each other as people rather than as party-goers.
Try falling in LIKE, first, rather than aiming at love from the start. The trouble with dating is that it seems to have only one implied purpose - try what Jason calls "activity partners" - people with whom you share OTHER$ ativities and interests.
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