Our expert says:
He is a problem drinker, who apparently behaves stupidly and in such a way as to distress others, when drunk. Sorry to say it, but a wife No. 4 rarely has any more luck than wives 1 to 3. By a 4th marriage, you can assume there just might have been excellent reasons why the other 3 gave up.
His history of such bad behaviour sounds far more like a personality disorder than any bipolar or other disorder likely to respond to medications - and such meds are pointless in someone who regularly drinks excessively - the alcohol undermines the effectiveness of the meds. Did he honestly tell the shrinks about his drinking and bad behaviours ?
I don't know what other hats he wears, but the alcohol hat will dislodge all the others.
Encourage him to get help specifically for his alcohol and behaviour problems.
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