Our expert says:
Is it that you no longer want to bear children at all - or that you don't want to have children WITH HIM ? If the latter, what is it that makes you feel this way ? Are there unexamined aspects of him or the likely relationship with him, that make you feel uneasy about letting him father children with you ?
It sounds as though he might want to father kids to prove his fertility and manhood, perhaps, more than to take on the long-term responsibilities this ought to entail.
He's in his comfort zone when he sees marriage as "merely a formality" rather than as involving more significant committment to a long-term relaionsip
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