Our expert says:
Whatever else is happening, he sounds like a naive and socially awkward guy, and clumsy. Have you tried, for a start, simply telling him calmly, that the way he approaches you and talks with you, makes you feel uneasy, and you'd prefer it if he would stop doing this. That you just don't want to talk about your personal life with anyone at work, including him. Would he like it if anyone kept asking him intimate questions about his personal life ?
And maybe have an initial chat with HR about this - they ought to be able to advise and help.
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.