Home > Experts > Question Search health advice Find an answer Question Posted by: Colin | 2012/05/10 Q.What do people find attractive in the opsite sex? For me it Bum, legs and a pleasent faceThe Bum must " move right" when she walks and she has all my attention.But in general I like all woman from skinny, plump to athletic.I dont like the etremes though (very skinny or very fat)I dont mind quirky eitherA woman with the right pheromones can also get my attention even if she is not physically attractive initiallyWrong phermones even on a hot babe is very off putingBicthy looking face even if the woman is not is also a massive turn off to me. 34 Pin It user comments Posted by: Normal man | 2012/05/11 I like a nice ass. It must be sexy. Not really a booby man but it is hard to look a woman in the eyes with nice (not 2 big, boobs). She must be fresh but i don''t want to suffucate in her perfume. Nice legs are always attractive to me. But after saying all this, it is not all that important. A shallow woman with a nice body is only for fun (maybe one night.) I like a confident woman who can engage in an intelligent conversation. She must have a sense of humor. I think women are the most beautiful creatures that God created. Absoluut stunning. She must be sensitve but strong. Beautifull eyes, lips, hair. And the way she looks at me. Reply to Normal man Posted by: SueBaby | 2012/05/11 Wow...,I think when you love someone you find them attractive regardless!...I am saying this because my boyfriend has everything I THINK is superhot.Nice wide back and chest,not skinny,tall,nice lickable skin just damn sexxy...Well I like a man''s physique more than anything. Reply to SueBaby Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 True :) Reply to Answer Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 Answer, you''re never to old to learn :D Reply to Woman Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/10 No Woman stop it! Im at work. I cant get out from behind my desk now. Gotta wait for this tepee in my trousers to subside! Reply to Brendan Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 Brendan wouldn''t know what women like Woman. Reply to Answer Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 Brendan, that is why you either wax, or pull out the hair by hand (like an egyptian priest, lol), shaving causes all sorts of nasty rashes in moist places. My goodness Brendon, some women Do like their, erm , ''thighs'' chafed. (therefore the beard is on many women''s lists, capice?) Reply to Woman Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/10 But I hate the stubble when it starts to grow after two days Collie. Too rough on the tongue! And I make sure I''m clean shaven too. I mean my face. Woman hate their thighs to be chaffed. Reply to Brendan Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 Yo -landi is freeeky, man, I laik her alot, you''re right, she''s souf efrika''s mimi hehehehehe!! Reply to Woman Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 Aahh she is not too bad....hehehe....Try and get Yolandie Visser of Die Antwoord out of your head as seen in their new video...Eeeuuuuuwwwwwww Reply to Answer Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 I suppose that is what''s called a double-entendre, lol, now try and get Mimi out of your head, answer :D Reply to Woman Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 Collie...the mental pic she referred to was Mimi in the Drew Carrey Show lol.....I knew you were going to get stuck on the bald guava!!! Reply to Answer Posted by: Colin | 2012/05/10 Oh Actually that is a nice visual do I prefer my ladies bald down there. Reply to Colin Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 Now Collie, I am sure I told you that I wax everywhere? Don''t like forests, you know, not anywhere.But I''m talking about overdone, fake nails, orange hair, blue eye shadow and fake lashes. (Like mimi in the drew carrey show)Go on, unimagine that mental picture now hehehe!! Reply to Woman Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 - I don''t care either way - Hairy, or bare -Chest- definitely athletic, even slim, but healthy-Rugged or clean shaven look -well, though I like my man clean shaven, there''s is something to be said (really loudly) for a bit of a beard - Nothing is as titillating as those scruffy beards (not a full one, mind, a camel man scruff is what I''m talking about. hmmmmm.-Please let all speedos die, I''m a boardshort fan. (the hips and the legs)-And I would add that I''m a leg fan, and a good a s s will always be a good a s s Reply to Woman Posted by: Colin | 2012/05/10 @woman" Natural thing" = hairy armpits??? Reply to Colin Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 Well Brendan, your criteria is pretty, erm low, so I guess I''d score high enough since I''m quite adept at personal hygiene, lol!I am of delicate build, so my fingers and toes are long and slim, like the rest of me. I don''t wear nail varnish, am more into the natural look thing. Reply to Woman Posted by: Colin | 2012/05/10 Boobs-Dont matterBum- Must move right and suit the girlI dont mind piercings as I had piercings to a little while Tats like a tramp stamp I dont mind but not whole sleeves or crappy pieces Reply to Colin Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 Not too hairy....not too bare....just inbetween, normal hair :)Normal, maybe even slightly overweight is okSometimes rugged, sometimes clean shaven...I like both...Board shorts PLEASE Reply to Answer Posted by: Survey | 2012/05/10 So Men do you like:Medium, small or large BreastRounded, flat or big BumsFair, dark or olive skinsBody piercings, tatoos etcWoman do you like:Hairy, or bare -ChestBuff (muscular), athletic or slight overweight Rugged or clean shaven lookSpeedos or board shortsLets get a bit more specific. If I left out anything please add. Reply to Survey Posted by: Cyclist | 2012/05/10 I find the following attractive in a woman- Nice bum Nice breasts Pleasant face Humour Personailty Hygiene Reply to Cyclist Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/10 So Woman, how do you measure to my list? Reply to Brendan Posted by: Temba | 2012/05/10 Thuli your checklist is way too long my dear Reply to Temba Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 LOL Woman....good one....Oh Man, stop with the victim mentality and everybody is out to get my syndrome...People will only treat you any old way you LET THEM. So if you think women is deceitful devils, it is because you let them be ) Reply to Answer Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 man - off course we do, it''s called a blow job, and that''s why we swallow (or spit lol)! (and that is why you love us so, you can''t very well suck yourself dry, can you?) Reply to Woman Posted by: Man | 2012/05/10 Women, just deceitfull devils.. U just wanna s*ck men dry. Reply to Man Posted by: jo | 2012/05/10 Turn ons:EyesSmartFunnyRespectfulsame interestsThoughtfulHelpfulTurn offs:SelfishLazyControllingDeceitfulArrogantI didnt like hairy men much at all, but weirdly enough the man im with is pretty hairy but is everything i like in a man. Gotten used to it already. Reply to jo Posted by: Loli | 2012/05/10 He must be able to an interesting and intellingent conversation, must be neat and with short / no hair. Must smell good and be able look at me. He must be humble, honest and respectful. Turn-off: Being self-absorbed, thinking he''s all that. No bragging about your achievements, material things, how much you make. No lying to me- cause I sent you packing! Lol Thuli on the muscle-bound guys. I agree. Reply to Loli Posted by: Answer | 2012/05/10 Sooo many things Collie......Being able to hold an interesting and intelligent conversationBeing responsibleGood plannerGreat laughIntense eye contactGreat Kisser (and I mean GREAT)Head over heels for meDress senseSmellSmileHandsHeightColour of eyesAbility to provideFinancial stabiltyAdventurousOpen to new ideas and conceptsAnd the list goes on.... Reply to Answer Posted by: Olive | 2012/05/10 Character : Some one who is down to earth, not loud and overbearing, honest, wise, humble and has a sense of humour. Cant stand arrogant men who think they can get any woman they want!Looks : always notice the hands first, is he hard working or a mommy''s boy and then of course the eyes! Reply to Olive Posted by: Brendan | 2012/05/10 I''m a fingers, toes and teeth guy. I dont mind what colour you are, just don''t come to me if your toes aren''t pretty! And make sure your teeth are polished and NEVER have nail varnish that is chipped! Reply to Brendan Posted by: Thuli | 2012/05/10 At last, a butt man!! I have tiny cute breasts and sometimes feel insecure about them (tho at least they are very perky). However I have a rear-end from heaven - traffic-stopping properties. Nice to know there are fellas out there for whom the back view is so compelling :)I like darker -skinned men (''chocolate brothers'') with short or no hair (bald is so sexy), reasonably fit, definitely not thin as that means there is literally nothing to ride. A tummy is offputting, just as it is on a woman. I hate muscle-bound guys - the gym rat look. Men pls take note - that look only works on stage at Mr Olympia or the Arnold Classic. Women HATE the muscle-bound look. Toned is fine, more than that and it becomes about the muscles not the man. A great body is a swimmer''s or cyclist''s body - in shape but not thick with muscles. So pls watch it with the steroids and the 45kg dumbbels. The reason we girls look is not bcz we like what we see. Most of us are staring and thinking, ugh! And we are ALL imagining how tiny your thingy must be in comparison to those massive thigh muscles. That is why we stare, ok? Cos we are wondering how tiny the chipolata must be. Not worth consuming.I also like beautiful kind eyes. A man''s eyes say more than a woman''s does. Women have the advantage of make up etc. A man''s eyes cannot lie. I love good lips, for me the man with perfect lips is Will Smith. Nice hands and short groomed nails are also a must. And he shd have good teeth. I am just a teeth person, I love good teeth. Also freshness is such a turn on. A guy who smells good (mouth included!) is great to be near. Just like u guys like us fresh (everywhere!) And I prefer some tirmming down there. Please reduce the forest.And wear nice shoes. We have a thing about our own girly shoes - what u don''t know is that we have a thing about the shoes YOU wear too. It is a massive turn on when a guy is wearing a nice shoe - I look at that first before the clothes. It just screams s*x appeal when a man puts on the right shoe. Concentrate yr clothing budget there and forget the expensive Tag Heuer watch.And no you don''t have to be rich and drive an XK. It has never made a man more of a man. Masculinity doesn''t come in Jaguars and Aston Martins. A guy carries it inside him. Reply to Thuli Posted by: Woman | 2012/05/10 Turn on - intelligence (true intelligence, not nesc. academic), power, decisiveness, honest, healthy, fit, self confidence,cleanly, trustworthy, independent, wise, patient and honorableTurn off: chauvinistic, aggression, closed minded, one subject minded, arrogant, shallow, addictive personality (therefore addicted to something) over sensitive.First point of impact for me: His eyes. They''re not called the windows to the soul for nothing! Reply to Woman Posted by: Survey | 2012/05/10 Turn on - Charm, intellect, humourous, respectful and clean (nice teeth and clean hands and nails) yes sorry to say but he must be attractive (not necessarily sexy but attractive)Turn off - Egotistic, womaniser, shallow (even if he is the sexiest man -if he is shallow i loose interest in 10seconds flat) Reply to Survey Want to comment? Your name (optional) Your comment To prevent spam please solve this simple math problem: × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment To prevent spam please solve this simple math problem: advertisement From our sponsors There are more than 200 different viruses which can cause a cold A clinically proven skin care range is now available Medihelp’s regional information sessions Superior comfort and support