Our expert says:
There is no such thing as 'what men want", any more than there is "what women want". But THIS man you are describing, seems to have behaved badly. Cheating is bad, and presumably it was his child that led to your maternity leave ?
The meaning of the phone numbers is not really clear, but suspicious.
If you really want to repair this relationship ( and you've spent 6 years on it so far ) see a relationship / couples counsellor together. If not, don't leave without ensuring that you get the Maintenance Court to decide how much maintenance he should pay for the child, and to enforce the court order.
Women also cheat, and both men and women lie, and try to deny that they have lied.
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