Our expert says:
Is he married ? If so, has anyone he listens to reminded him of this fact ? His parents , perhaps ? If he wants to behave and live like a single man, he should see to it that he is and remains single.
Now, if you have frequent visits from friends who go out with married men, that is disrespectful of the idea of marriage and fidelity, and its understandable that he would be upset by that. Why is it OK if they get other meen to cheat, with them, but you['re worried your own man might be cheating with someone else ? Dont you need to be consistent ? Why do you feel the need to socialize not with other women who are faithful, but with those who encourage infidelity ? Are there no other women to socialize with ?
Or is he mistaken, and your friends are entirely innocent, and he is misjudging them ? Why would he do that ?
And then you admit that YOU are being unfaithful and dating other men while married, so your husband has a real basis for bein suspicious and angry. Why are you doing that ? Its not compulsory.
Why not suggest to him that as the marriage obviously has problems which are making both of you unhappy, that you should see a marriage counsellor together and try seriously to work things out ? You don't have to just accept his behaviour - but neither should he have to "accept" yours. Try properly to sort this relationship out, and i that proves impossible even with prooper expert help, then rather end it rather than continue to be unfaithful and unhappy
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