Our expert says:
Sounds like 3 people had a tantrum that evening - 2 older tantrums, and one little person. Why are you pursuing this guy so desperately ? If you have to beg him to spend time with you, its not as much of a friendship as you seem to assume. Maybe your previous bad relationships have primed you to expect cheating, though there's no major reason to assume that this time - but even if he is indeed simply tired from his work, he dopesn't sound able to carry on a reasonably close relationship at this time.
Why are you insisting on giving away so much of your power ? Weeping so hectically is just not appropriate, and an over-reaction to the situation you describe. You are behaving as though this guy is your only possiblity, ever, for a relationship - surely that's not so ?
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