Our expert says:
I think the easy availability of testing has actually reduced access to real genuine human communication, and makes it too easy for people to avoid learning actual human communication skills ( and to miss the joys of real communication). Testing is fine for sending short messages like : "Finished shopping early - can you fetch me at 2.3o ?", but not for real communicating with someone else, let alone someone you actually like and who hopefully likes you. Its like the pretense that Facebook "friends' have anything at all to do with actual Friendship.
Maybe you're noth just a but rusty on conversation skills, and a bit nervous when together ; one can get hung up about struggling to find the "right" thing to say, to the point of finding it hard to think of ANYTHING to say, rather than just relaxing and chatting. A counsellor can help each of you to learn these skills and confidence, and to enjoy a genuine relationship rather than a textual substitute for one
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