Our expert says:
Surely its not that you "can't live without each other" - neither would literally die if you were separated - but that being together has become a bad habit, like an uncomfortable pair of shows that hurt your feet, but which you usually insist on wearing to church.
And if he really was not awoken by hard squeezing of his testicles, he either has peculiarly insensitive genitals, or was in a deep drugged sleep ? Thats a method some doctors would use to try to arouse a comatose patient in casualty !
Anyhow you are apparently unhappy and physically abusive to each other, and there is really no good point to this relationship. You both may bneed counselling to help you give up these bad habits, including the habit of hanging out together.
Why on earth would either of you voluntarily spend any time together ? Do you really believe there is no other possible friend to be with ?
Leave each other alone, move on, and get therapeutic help, not only to stop this unwholesome pairin, but to learn to lose these bad habits, so as not to repeat this ugly pattern in any future relationships.
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