Posted by: help | 2009-08-04

want some sex

Me and my husband is together for 4 years now 2 of wich we are married when we started to date i told him that i hate sex due to the fact that my ex husband have abused me so he made love to me like i have never felt before
now that we are married he dosnt want to have sex ofen i only get sex 3 times a month some time 2 weeks he will not thouch me to have sex if i dont start it he will not give any please help i am seeing purple
I do want him to make love to me but i dont always want to start is it make me feel guilty

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firstly you should not feel guilty about wanting to have sex with your husband. communication is essential in any relationship and more so if there are problems in the bedroom. i would advice you to consider speaking to your husband about it. it may be possible he has a sexual desire problem and therefore doesnot feel like having sex often. if this is the case, then it would be recommended that he consults with his doctor or a sexologist to help your'l get through this.

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Posted by: Anon 2 | 2009-08-06

Talk Talk Talk - he cannot read your mind

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Posted by: Anon | 2009-08-06

He is getting it from someone else, its so and see...

Sorry for you!

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Posted by: help | 2009-08-05

CV i just want to refraise we did have wow sex for the first two years but now it is a problem all of the sudden

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Posted by: help | 2009-08-05

Cv That is just the point he change my hole perspective about it but now that i do like it he is not willing to give we use to talk about it and it was never a probleme but as i said for the last year or two he will never touch me like he use to i was realy starting to think he gets it some where else he was never like this why did he all of the suden changed yesterday i did try to talk to him about it but he did not even answer me
But when he want some i must just be ready &  be glad that i got some
Why all of the sudden the change

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Posted by: CV | 2009-08-04

What did you expect. I take my hat off to him respecting your wishes. You caused this so you need to fix this. Tell him what you want.

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