Our expert says:
Years back I discovered the useful psyhological concept ( and later the brilliant shrink you worked it out became a friend ) of the "good enough mother" ; and part of i was the importance of a mother being good enough by various standards, but not needing to be superb in any of them. So we need to try to be good enough at what we do, without requiring perfection, especially when the impossibility of perfection is then so often used as an excuse for not trying at all.
Sounds like you're on a fruitful path of discover, and losing the witch.
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