Our expert says:
If used repetitively over the same area you may over stimulate the nerves and so create altered or diminished sensation over that area. This should all return with time. It is normal, and no problem in the long term. You may want to use the vibrator more lightly and for shorter periods of time and over a wider area.
You also mentioned your short orgasms. 5 seconds does not sound too short and is quite normal given that average is between 5 an 7 seconds. If you want longer or more intense orgasms you could try stimulating yourself sufficiently to build up a peak that then climaxes to a more powerful orgasm. Try to stimulate yourself with reading or visual material, or by fantasizing. When you are using the vibrator and are getting to the point of orgasm pull back, wait for the sensation to settle and then start again, repeating this process several times. You will certainly experience a more powerful orgasm after this.
You should certainly not feel bad about buying a vibrator, you should be commended on taking full responsibility for your own pleasure. If it is your concern to preserve your hymen then it is best to keep with a small vibrator. There may be others apart from the bullet vibrators that you can use. If you are embarrassed to go into sex store, then online shopping may be helpful.
SASHA. For further information please consult SASHA’S website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org
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