Our expert says:
The effort shouldn't need to be all on your part.
YOu may want to give him an ultimatum - that he join you, for as long as it takes, sincerely participating in marriage counselling, or you will consider seeing a lawyer and investigate divorce. His behaviour is selfish and inappropriate for a husband and father.
And of course the ancient Greeks originated a treatment for dealing with the sexual selfishness, when Lysistrata persuaded the other women to refuse to have sex with their husbands until thy changed their ways.
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